Comments on: Can you stay friends post Break Up? http://www.lesliestar.ca/can-you-stay-friends-post-break-up/ Celebrity Gossip | News | Advice | Mon, 30 Jan 2012 22:09:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ian http://www.lesliestar.ca/can-you-stay-friends-post-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-840 Ian Fri, 15 Jan 2010 02:54:08 +0000 http://www.lesliestar.ca/?p=2881#comment-840 I'm pretty sure being friends after a relationship has died is impossible. I don't know anyone that has ever maintained a friendship after a break up. The old feeling get in the way or your new partner will. If you get a new boyfriend/girlfriend they aren't going to want you hanging out with your X. They might say they are ok with it, but they are full of it... they don't like it. Trying to be friends with an X is a bad idea anyway. The initiator is always going to look pathetic or desperate in the eyes of the other. The "Oh look, she's come crawling back" or "She wants to get close to me again so she can keep tabs on me" mindset. You don't want them to have that on you... you've broken up... keep it that way! I’m pretty sure being friends after a relationship has died is impossible. I don’t know anyone that has ever maintained a friendship after a break up. The old feeling get in the way or your new partner will. If you get a new boyfriend/girlfriend they aren’t going to want you hanging out with your X. They might say they are ok with it, but they are full of it… they don’t like it.

Trying to be friends with an X is a bad idea anyway. The initiator is always going to look pathetic or desperate in the eyes of the other. The “Oh look, she’s come crawling back” or “She wants to get close to me again so she can keep tabs on me” mindset. You don’t want them to have that on you… you’ve broken up… keep it that way!

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