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How to tell if your lover is sleeping with your friend

by Leslie Star » Advice, Leslie Star on Youtube.com, Love Advice, Tip of the Day

Do you have the gut feeling that your friend and girlfriend/boyfriend are sleeping together.. ?  I hope this isn’t happening to you because I know from experience how much this sucks..

However, I wanted to tell you the hints on how I found out that my boyfriend was sleeping around on me so that if it was happening to you.. that you could figure it out..

Don’t be the last to know!

What NOT to do on a first date

by Leslie Star » Advice, Love Advice

Going on a first date with someone makes most people very nervous and they do things that they normally wouldn’t do because they are terrified..

However there are certain things you don’t do on a first date weather your nervous or not..

These are the Top Ten No No’s On A First Date

  1. Do not talk about your ex’s.  This is so important because you are trying to start a new relationship and you are over your ex (Hopefully).  It is time to start fresh and you can’t do that by talking about your ex lover.. So not attractive
  2. Talking about sex.. Unless you both are slutty and you can sense it .. I wouldn’t talk about sex your first date.  It will probably make your date very uncomfortable and it will turn them off completely or turn them on if they are horny.
  3. Don’t get drunk!  There is nothing wrong with having a couple cocktails or a glass of wine with dinner but don’t order shots or drink like a fish all night.. I am sure that you are nervous but you will look like a complete mess by the end of the date and you will probably embarrass yourself or sleep with them and I guarantee you won’t get a second date..
  4. Don’t grill the other person.  You probably have a million questions to ask them, but don’t ask so many that it seems like they are in the interrogation room with the police.  Leave some mystery for the second date.
  5. Do not bring your friends along.  A date is shared between two people.. If you bring friends a long it is soooo high school and your date will drop you like a hot potato.
  6. If your a woman do not wear a short dress or skirt on your first date.  It will give the wrong impression and they will only want to sleep with you.  Wear some dark jeans with a nice blouse or a skirt that is just above the knees.
  7. Turn off your damn phone.  Before you go out make sure you cell phone, Blackberry and other electronic devices are turned off.  Your date wants to feel like they are the most important person of the evening.
  8. Don’t go to a location where you know a lot of people.  You don’t want your friends coming up to the table all night striking up a conversation.  Pick a quiet but fun place for the date and not your regular hang out.
  9. Take cash out before your date.  If your a guy.. then you will be paying for the dinner and everything else for the evening.  If you don’t pay then you are in fact a loser and she should get up and leave the table if you don’t.  Don’t pull this.. “I forgot my wallet at home.. or should we split this” bullsh*t.  YOUR PAYING so take some money out before in case they only take cash.
  10. Don’t talk the whole time.  I talk a fair amount when I’m nervous but try not to.. The night is about the other person so give them a chance to talk about themselves.  Don’t be a name dropper either if you know a lot of people.. That is so unattractive and it looks like your trying too hard.  Be yourself because that is what will get you a new love interest. :)

Lose Weight – Gain Sex Drive?

by Leslie Star » Advice, Love Advice

Do Skinny People Have Better Sex Lives???

Have you ever been over weight and just felt so self conscious and not sexy at all?

Does the mention of sex make your skin crawl because you couldn’t imagine what your partner would think if you took your clothes off?

Is the dark your best friend?

Many people think this way.  You are not alone.  No one can feel good about someone else touching them if they aren’t happy with themselves.

It is time to take control of your own body and whip your ass into shape if you want a better sex life.

Once you are comfortable in your own skin you will see others start to n0tice you in a different light.

Lots of over weight couples have trouble in the sex department.

It’s hard to get turned on when you have a roll that’s in the way. :)

How about going to the gym together and that way you have someone to relate too and someone to support you along the way?  If you experience it together perhaps you will realize that you are sexy no matter what size you or your partner are.

Tips

Start walking and stop bringing home chocolate bars and chips.  Find something new to do when you are both bored instead of sitting in front of the TV or movie night at home every night.

It’s time to get active and stay active if you want a successful sex life.

It will not only bring more spice into the bedroom but the overall feel of your relationship will change.  Bare in mind that it’s not just sex that makes the partnership better it’s the romance too.

Not just women need to be given roses and love cards but so do men.  If men feel like they are doing all the work they  won’t have the same gusto doing it and it won’t mean as much to either of you.

Try and be friendly to your partner always and treat them the best you could ever treat anyone.  Let them know that you love them no matter what.  It helps to hear that when you are down.

While your in the grocery store.. buy a cook book.. pick a page you would like to cook from that is healthy and buy the ingredients and make the dinner together.  That is a whole night that you get to spend quality time together.

Finally.. Do most skinny people have better sex lives?  In my experience they do.

More energy, less weight so more positions and you are probably more flexible.  You feel better about yourself and when you do you look sexier and willing to experience more new things.

This is not to say that all over weight people have terrible sex livesThis is not true.  I am just talking the majority or the people who are overweight that are experiencing this.

Do thin people experience more fun because usually there are the ones who are more noticed?  I don’t think so.

There is someone for everyone no matter what you look like on the outside or act on the inside.  There are millions of skinny people that are just as lonely as people who have a bit more meat on their bones.

Confidence is what sells so always be confident in yourself no matter what current state you are in.

If your not confident in your property who would want to buy it.. ?

Hope these tips helped ya.. :)


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Did I do something wrong?

by Leslie Star » Love Advice, Miscellaneous

Guys & Girls R From Different Planets

This message is for all of you that just can’t understand your male mate. 

Does he become distant for no apparent reason and you think you did something wrong? 

Well you didn’t. 

Does that ease your mind a little?

That happened to me many times and I always use to cry and get really upset because I didn’t think I did anything wrong even though I thought I must have for him to do this to me.  Turns out they don’t even think they are doing anything wrong!

Men like to go into their “caves” according to the book “Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus” and they tend to go into a zone where they just want to think about their problems and hide away.

This is not your fault!

The book also says that men are like “rubber bands” and when they have had enough affection that they need they tend to stretch as far away as possible and when they have left for as long as they can they bounce back more powerful then before and become way better than they were before.

Guys.. errrr

Don’t ever think it is your fault when guys are being just plan stupid..

If you have anymore questions about guys or girls please do read  “Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus” because it really is a spectacular book and I wish that everyone would read it.  Or you could ask me by emailing me at lesliestar@lesliestar.ca because I have read the book.

Leslie Star

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