Tag: Friends

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

Can you stay friends post Break Up?

I have been through lots of relationships and they all didn’t work except for the one I am in now..

It’s been almost 5 years.. I can honestly say that I believe we could be friends if we ever broke up.. I think it’s because we have known each other since we were 13 years old and were friends first.  I know that we couldn’t “hang out” or anything right away, but we could talk on the phone once and a while.

I guess it really depends on why you broke up.  If it’s because of one cheating on the other than it will never work.

If you break up and even as soon as a month later meet up for coffee to try and start a friendship it ain’t gonna work.  There will still be lovey feelings and then you are going to want to get back together and it isn’t going to work.  You will end up sleeping together and wreck everything..

TRUST ME!

If you really truly want to be friends than try it slowly and don’t jump into things.  More often than not, once you break up it’s over..

You have to get over the fact that you probably will never see them again.

Overall… Relationships don’t work for a reason.. It’s because both of your personalities don’t mesh well and you being friends isn’t going to be any different than when you were in that rocky relationship.

So stop crying over the fact that you guys broke up and find someone new to cuddle up next to.

Love isn’t suppose to make you upset..

Drawing done by Sean C.  :)


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Monday, January 4th, 2010

Top 10 Things To Do When It Rains

 

I live in Vancouver where it literally rains 90% of the time.  It’s hard to find things to do when it’s raining because Vancouver doesn’t really have a very good night life and they aren’t necessarily prepared for the rain as much as you may think.  If you are like me then you may get a little depressed when it is so dark and dreary outside for days and days. 

Here is my Top Ten Things to Do when it Rains.

  1. Go see a movie with friends or rent one and make some popcorn as it will be a whole lot cheaper and you can talk during the movie.
  2. Go to the mall and spend some cash.  Nothing passes the time for me better than shopping :)   Try not to spend too much money on things you don’t really need like I do.
  3. Go to your nearest bookstore and pick up a book that you have been wanting to read.  Go home.. light a candle and relax with a warm throw blanket, your robe and the fireplace on.  If you don’t have a fireplace then buy that video that looks a fireplace on your tv.
  4. Watch TV… I know you probably do this all the time and you want some different ideas but I had to throw this one in there.. Try watching a different station than you normally watch.
  5. Play an indoor sport with some friends like racquetball or table tennis.  Throw a few beers in the mix and you have hours to act goofy and have some fun.
  6. Play a board game or work on a puzzle.  Nothing says fun like a bit of Scrabble ;)
  7. Add yourself to some new sites.  If you’ve never gone on Ebay and seen what it was about.. Sign yourself up and do a little browsing.  You can also go on Facebook, Twitter, UStream, Youtube, MySpace or millions of others.  Try adding random people and maybe you might meet your new best friend..
  8. Just because it’s raining doesn’t mean you have to stay inside.. Put on some waterproof gear and bring your camera to take pictures of the creepy crawlies you don’t see when it’s sunny outside.. Bring a friend along and compare pics.
  9. Go on a hike if you like that sort of thing.  I personally don’t… well it’s not that I don’t its just that I’m lazy.. :)   Pack a lunch and a friend and make sure to dress warm.  This way you don’t get too hot and there won’t be many people on the trail.
  10. Have a tent party!  Ask your friends to bring over their tents, sleeping bags, tarps, food and b.y.o.b and pitch your tents in your back yard if you have one.  If you don’t then just make some blanket tents and lots of pillows.. You could play some bored games, video games, paint each other toe nails, play drinking games, watch scary movies or just talk about old times..

If you have any more suggestions on what you can do in the rain… Please email me or leave a comment below..

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Thursday, December 3rd, 2009

Things To Do When Your Bored

Are you bored?

I find that I get bored really easily with everything.. So I am always looking up things to do when your bored on Google so I decided to make my own top 20 list..

1.  Go Shopping.  It really depends if you have a lot of cash flow or not let’s say you do… Shopping can take up the whole day if you go with your friends and eat at the food court and everything.

2.  Go to a part of the city that you have never been before and google it before you go and see what there is to do there.  You could always just pack a light lunch and get in your car and drive somewhere you’ve never been before and don’t prepare at all.  It’s always exciting with the possibility of you getting lost.. You have GPS though right? 

3.  Get a new hobby.  Check out your local community centers or places around your house that offer free or really cheap hobby events.  Perhaps there will be something very interesting that you never thought of before.  Who knows.. You may be awesome at it.

4.  Play solitare or some sort of card game.  It takes up a lot of time and it’s fun to play and it wastes a fair bit of time

5.  Read a novel or a “How To Do It” book that you recently found interesting.  Spend a couple hours in your nearest Chapters with a Starbucks and get cozy on one of their chairs and look up stuff that you have been meaning to for a while.  You always want to learn new things.. right?

6.  Go to a movie with your friends/family member.  There is usually a movie out that you want to see.  It is expensive to go to a movie these days if you want to get popcorn and everything but grab a bite before you head in.

7.  Go to a concert or play with your friends or alone if you really want to get into it.  Plays are usually inexpensive and that will kill a couple of hours.  Plus you get to dress up.

8.  Pack a picnic depending on how cold it is and set out to a park you’ve never been before.  Don’t forget a sheet so you don’t get grass stains.

9.  Write a letter or phone a relative that you haven’t talked to in a while.  They usually talk about anything and everything and talk your ear off.   Wait… you want fun things to do.. that’s right :)

10.  Listen to your favorite CD, watch your favorite movie or TV.   TV can be a great babysitter, even for adults.. :p

11.  Exercise!  If you have a pet that likes to go for a walk, pack your mp3 player and some doggie poop bags and your set for a while.  Go to the community gym or go swimming.

12.  Catch up on some chores.. ???  Come on I’m trying to think of things..

13.  Organize your paper work.  I know that I am not the only one in the world that piles it up in that dreaded drawer.. do do do..

14.  Start pulling out clothes from your closet that either don’t fit you or are ugly and you don’t know why you bought them in the first place.  Give them to charity.

15.  Make a Youtube video with a web cam.   Web cams are generally not expensive so stop off at an office store and pick one up.  Make a video of you being bored.. :)

16.  Make some crafts.  You must have some arts and crafts at home.  If you don’t then go to your nearest dollar store and pick some up.  You can even make crafts with your friends.  If you add some alcohol in the mix then you are going to have a great and messy time.

17.  Do something nice for your significant other.  Plan something great for them that requires a lot of thought.  Not only will it cure your boredom but it will make you some brownie points.

18.  Get your friends together for a party.  Last minute parties are usally the best.  Buy some appetizers and lots of booze.  Make up some fun games to play and listen to great music.  Put on a great movie in the background too on mute for something to watch when you start to slur ;)

19.  Go on Facebook for a while.  I betcha I could waste all day playing those games and uploading pics.

20.  Surf the net.  Nothing in my life takes up more time then that.  I can’t pull myself away from the computer sometimes.

I hope my ideas helped your boredom and if you have any more suggestions please leave a comment or email Me.

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