Guys & Girls R From Different Planets This message is for all of you that just can't understand your male mate.  Does he become distant for no apparent reason and you think you did something wrong?  Well you didn't.  Does that ease your mind a little? That happened to me many times and I always use to cry and get really upset because I didn't think I did anything wrong even though I thought I must have for him to do this to me.  Turns out they don't even think they are ...