December 31st, 2009
Today was a long day. It seemed like the hours dragged on forever. I was at work till 5:30 which was awful in itself. I love my job don’t get me wrong, but sometimes the time just passes so slowly. I think that happens at every job you work at.
I went to the mall on my lunch break and tried to find the game “Fear” at EB Games but no success. Apparently it has been discontinued.. I just bought a Play Station 3 and I can’t tell you how much I love it. I have Wii, Super Nintendo, Nintendo and a DS Lite too but nothing compares to the graphics and the power of the PS3.
The games seem to be a little hard core if a prissy girl were to play it because of all the blood in most of the games but I personally enjoy all that. I grew up with two boys being my best friends and they were both very much into video games and computers.
The mall was still insane. I can’t believe people are still going to the malls to get “Deals”… WHaTT DealS? I went on Boxing Day too and nothing caught my eye. Everything seemed the same price as it has been all year. When I was little I remember it being like Black Friday.. Now it’s really pathetic.
I looked a lot of new shoes.. There were a pair at Feet First I really liked for 169$ and they were Hush Puppies. They were so comfortable. I think I am going back tomorrow to buy them. I HAVE TO HAVE THEM.. You know when you don’t buy something and you think about it all night and until you end up buying them. Sometimes you wait too long and they don’t carry them anymore and you regret it forever… Well I am not having that happen to me this time.
After I came home from work I ate some BBQ spare ribs… I have been a vegetarian for 9 months and last weekend I caved. The first thing I at was Jimmy Dean Sausages.. I tried my damnedest to keep it that way but I noticed a lot of bad stuff about being a vegetarian as well. I started to get black circles around my eyes and I gained more weight because I couldn’t get full off of veggies. I’m gonna try and not eat a lot of meat because I really feel bad about the animals dying horrible deaths. I will work on buying meat that is cruelty free.
I have been surfing the net for most of the night… Once I get started playing those damn Facebook games I can’t get off them. My favorite would have to be Farmville for sure..
Add me if you want to because I need more neighbors 
I have to start work at 10:30 tomorrow morning so I get to sleep in a bit I love sleep!
December 1st, 2009
There are a number of reasons why women ask this question. It might be puzzling and plain dumb to men but that fact is there is actually several reasons why. The most important tip that I can give to men is never say, “YES YOU DO LOOK FAT!”
If they do chunky in the outfit try saying.. “How about you try on that blue shirt that I love so much with that skirt.”
Reasons why women ask “Do I look FAT in this?”
- They honestly want to know if they look frumpy or fat in the outfit. If so they want to change into something else that their husband/boyfriend/friends would be attracted to.
- They want to know that you think they are pretty.
- Their self confidence is low and they want you to boost it up. For example … “Do I look fat in this?”… “Of course not honey you look fabulous.”
- They want to be reassured that they look as hot as they feel. Sometimes women ask this to test their mate to make sure they give the right answer. If they do look fat then lie, lie and lie some more.
- They have recently lost weight and want to be told they look skinny.
- They just want to mess with you. Sometimes women test men just because they can. They know men squirm at the thought of this question being asked and they want to see how they react.
- They got a new outfit and they want to know what you think in case they need to take it back.
- Women always want to look and feel their best. Sometimes they really just need a “friend” to tell them what they want to hear cause they haven’t invented a mirror that does that yet.
Women always have tricks up their sleeves. We can’t help it .. It just comes second nature to us to torment the men in our lives We never usually ask our friends if we look fat in an outfit because they would probably tell us the truth.
Men have been trained for years to always say no to this question and never pause before they automatically answer NO. It is important to have a relationship where you tell the truth but sometimes it is critical that they tell a little white lie.
I hope I helped for next time you get asked this dreaded question.
Email lesliestar@lesliestar.ca if you have an interesting story of when you were asked “Does this outfit make me look fat“
January 29th, 2009
Guys & Girls R From Different Planets
This message is for all of you that just can’t understand your male mate.
Does he become distant for no apparent reason and you think you did something wrong?
Well you didn’t.
Does that ease your mind a little?
That happened to me many times and I always use to cry and get really upset because I didn’t think I did anything wrong even though I thought I must have for him to do this to me. Turns out they don’t even think they are doing anything wrong!
Men like to go into their “caves” according to the book “Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus” and they tend to go into a zone where they just want to think about their problems and hide away.
This is not your fault!
The book also says that men are like “rubber bands” and when they have had enough affection that they need they tend to stretch as far away as possible and when they have left for as long as they can they bounce back more powerful then before and become way better than they were before.
Guys.. errrr
Don’t ever think it is your fault when guys are being just plan stupid..
If you have anymore questions about guys or girls please do read “Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus” because it really is a spectacular book and I wish that everyone would read it. Or you could ask me by emailing me at lesliestar@lesliestar.ca because I have read the book.
Leslie Star
Such A Great Book
