Comments on: Why do Women ask “Do I look FAT in this?” http://www.lesliestar.ca/why-do-women-ask-do-i-look-fat-in-this/ Celebrity Gossip | News | Advice | Mon, 30 Jan 2012 22:09:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Nicole http://www.lesliestar.ca/why-do-women-ask-do-i-look-fat-in-this/comment-page-1/#comment-820 Nicole Wed, 30 Dec 2009 23:09:40 +0000 http://www.lesliestar.ca/?p=2704#comment-820 Oh, wait, that Al Bundy quote - not totally agreeing on that one. Certain badly made clothes create curves that aren't there :) But mostly, yeah it's the fat that makes people look fat. OK enough talk about fat people from me. Oh, wait, that Al Bundy quote – not totally agreeing on that one. Certain badly made clothes create curves that aren’t there :)
But mostly, yeah it’s the fat that makes people look fat. OK enough talk about fat people from me.

]]> By: Nicole http://www.lesliestar.ca/why-do-women-ask-do-i-look-fat-in-this/comment-page-1/#comment-819 Nicole Wed, 30 Dec 2009 23:08:06 +0000 http://www.lesliestar.ca/?p=2704#comment-819 I actually agree with you Ian and Steve. Harsh, but hey, unless it's caused by somekind of condition, both women and men need to keep putting the effort into looking good for their girl/boyfriends...I'm not sure why anyone wouldn't want to. I actually agree with you Ian and Steve. Harsh, but hey, unless it’s caused by somekind of condition, both women and men need to keep putting the effort into looking good for their girl/boyfriends…I’m not sure why anyone wouldn’t want to.

]]> By: Steve M http://www.lesliestar.ca/why-do-women-ask-do-i-look-fat-in-this/comment-page-1/#comment-780 Steve M Fri, 04 Dec 2009 07:38:25 +0000 http://www.lesliestar.ca/?p=2704#comment-780 "It's not the dress that makes you look fat it's the fat that makes you look fat...." - Al Bundy Married with Children “It’s not the dress that makes you look fat it’s the fat that makes you look fat….”

- Al Bundy
Married with Children

]]> By: Leslie Star http://www.lesliestar.ca/why-do-women-ask-do-i-look-fat-in-this/comment-page-1/#comment-777 Leslie Star Wed, 02 Dec 2009 18:01:49 +0000 http://www.lesliestar.ca/?p=2704#comment-777 Oh my gosh... Ian.. Your the best! The is the ultimate comment! Here is your gold fat star :) Oh my gosh… Ian.. Your the best! The is the ultimate comment! Here is your gold fat star :)

]]> By: Ian http://www.lesliestar.ca/why-do-women-ask-do-i-look-fat-in-this/comment-page-1/#comment-773 Ian Wed, 02 Dec 2009 17:42:06 +0000 http://www.lesliestar.ca/?p=2704#comment-773 Alright... I'm going to give you the guy's point of view on this one. Lets start with a scenario... I started dating a woman and she was 130lbs and looked smokin' hot in her black dress. A year down the road she starts on the new chips and chocolate bar diet and balloons to 180lbs. It's now assumable that I still love this woman; I still want to be with her but that I find her terribly unattractive. Sure a lot of peoples priories and mindsets change as their loved ones get older and heavier but.. we're talking 50lbs growth in only a year, not a lifetime. Not only is that unattractive but a serious long term health concern. A healthy guy like myself doesn't want to be with an unhealthy person, or get sucked into there bad habits. Back to the scenario, if she squeezes herself into that black dress and comes to me to ask "Do I look like a whale in this?" I'm going to give her the honest truth... "Not as good as you once did". Sure it sounds cruel and like I'm an asshole but I have good reasons. I know she wanted me to say "Of course not, you look good in anything" or some bull shit. In my scenario, I want to be with her but I don't want to have her continue down the road to blimpness, she needs to make a change.. right now. Trying to make subtle hints about her weight and getting her to come with me to the gym have failed in the past as she has become lazy, lost confidence and the motivation to make a change. She needs an intervention and it has to be her man, telling her how it is. It could be disastrous for the relationship... but in the long run it is better to correct the issue then to allow it to interfere with your happiness, as well as your sex life. Since my woman has gained a lot of weight I am not as attracted, and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. If this continues I will go resentful and likely be driven to breaking up with her, masturbating too often or be tempted by another woman. This is why, for both our sakes that she needs the cold hard slap in the face about her weight. After the admission, if she decides that your an ass and doesn't want to be with you, so be it. Maybe 10 years from now she'll call you in on the Maury show to show you how thin she is, and then you can make your move to put her on tap again. The bottom line is that she needs to know, and if your hints arn't getting through then it is time to be a man and tell her how it is. You know damn well if you put on an ugly clothing combination she will tell you. If she see's a hot guy on TV she's going to say, "Maybe you should get a 6-pack like that". If she is going to speak up, it's time that you told her to look in the mirror and get real. "Do I look fat in this" = The perfect opportunity to fix the fatty growth that has plagued your relationship) Alright… I’m going to give you the guy’s point of view on this one. Lets start with a scenario… I started dating a woman and she was 130lbs and looked smokin’ hot in her black dress. A year down the road she starts on the new chips and chocolate bar diet and balloons to 180lbs. It’s now assumable that I still love this woman; I still want to be with her but that I find her terribly unattractive. Sure a lot of peoples priories and mindsets change as their loved ones get older and heavier but.. we’re talking 50lbs growth in only a year, not a lifetime. Not only is that unattractive but a serious long term health concern. A healthy guy like myself doesn’t want to be with an unhealthy person, or get sucked into there bad habits.

Back to the scenario, if she squeezes herself into that black dress and comes to me to ask “Do I look like a whale in this?” I’m going to give her the honest truth… “Not as good as you once did”. Sure it sounds cruel and like I’m an asshole but I have good reasons. I know she wanted me to say “Of course not, you look good in anything” or some bull shit. In my scenario, I want to be with her but I don’t want to have her continue down the road to blimpness, she needs to make a change.. right now. Trying to make subtle hints about her weight and getting her to come with me to the gym have failed in the past as she has become lazy, lost confidence and the motivation to make a change. She needs an intervention and it has to be her man, telling her how it is. It could be disastrous for the relationship… but in the long run it is better to correct the issue then to allow it to interfere with your happiness, as well as your sex life. Since my woman has gained a lot of weight I am not as attracted, and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. If this continues I will go resentful and likely be driven to breaking up with her, masturbating too often or be tempted by another woman. This is why, for both our sakes that she needs the cold hard slap in the face about her weight.

After the admission, if she decides that your an ass and doesn’t want to be with you, so be it. Maybe 10 years from now she’ll call you in on the Maury show to show you how thin she is, and then you can make your move to put her on tap again. The bottom line is that she needs to know, and if your hints arn’t getting through then it is time to be a man and tell her how it is. You know damn well if you put on an ugly clothing combination she will tell you. If she see’s a hot guy on TV she’s going to say, “Maybe you should get a 6-pack like that”. If she is going to speak up, it’s time that you told her to look in the mirror and get real.

“Do I look fat in this” = The perfect opportunity to fix the fatty growth that has plagued your relationship)

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